Have you ever used a Vibrator?
I'm sure you used a vibrator before. Although, even that is not certain. You know.... there are women who never did. I am pretty sure my mom never used one, at least not until a few years ago.
I didn't. Not until my first marriage ended- and I got one as a gift from my friend with benefits, together with my sister.
I know, weird. But I was the "holy" one- the one who waited with sex till she got married (and because of that married the wrong guy).
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Have you ever used a Vibrator?
I'm sure you used a vibrator before. Although, even that is not certain. You know.... there are women who never did. I am pretty sure my mom never used one, at least not until a few years ago.
I didn't. Not until my first marriage ended- and I got one as a gift from my friend with benefits, together with my sister.
I know, weird. But I was the "holy" one- the one who waited with sex till she got married (and because of that married the wrong guy).
The Present
When I got this WAND (a strong vibrator) that you see in the picture as a present, I wasn't entirely certain what it was. Only when I started it and felt the vibration, I realised.
I had to get used to it. Not because I am not used to vibrators, but because it's so strong, and I struggled to control my orgasms with it.
OOHHH I hear you thinking. Why is that a bad thing? Isn't it the best thing in the world to get an orgasm as soon as possible?
Using A Vibrator For Other Things Than Orgasms
Well... not in my world! First of all- I am a kind of relationship where my sex life, including my orgasms, is controlled. I can only cum when I get permission! And.... I had to learn... that an extended orgasm is a better one.
A vibrator can help with that, but only if you use it the right way. In my case, it means- not using it too often, and use it carefully. It numbs my clit, and then I can't orgasm over and over again, and I like that so much! 😀
Forcing orgasms
It's fantastic to force orgasms too. The vibration is so strong, that at one point it will force your body to orgasm again, maybe before it was ready for it. And this may sound unhealthy- but to me- it broke years of the habit of only having one orgasm. Apparently it was all only in my head, that I could only have one orgasm at the time! No- it wasn't just all fun, although yes, to me pain is also fun, but it's something my body wasn't used to, and when my partner used the wand on my like that, I squirmed and screamed and even yelled at him. He couldn't care less, he actually liked it, and he made me orgasm over and over again. And it was the best feeling ever. We were in a power exchange relationship- meaning that he decides what happens- but this is something so much fun to play with together... vibrators are definitely not for you alone!
And besides playing with clits to make you cum, it's also really really nice to play with male genitals as well... and see what happens.
Kinky Assignments
From the first of September I am going to focus on kinky assignments.
Not just for couples in a power exchange relationship. But also for you, if you are in a relationship and you would like to spice things up a bit, if you think there must be more in the bedroom, or... if you are looking for ways to create more connection and intimacy, and you prefer playing in the bedroom over lying on the sofa with a wedding counselor. (trust me it is so much more fun- and the results are also better... because you're gonna practice!)
Will keep you posted.
Have fun- and play with passion!
Sam
What is the best thing you ever did with a vibrator? Together or alone? How creative are you? And what type of assignment would you love to get?
Let me know in the comments box below- not just for you, as a first step in acknowledging it, but also in showing the other readers that they are not alone... Thanks a million! You are brave and courageous.
You touched points that should be understood in life
Brom Rilis
“You touched on a number of points that should be understood in life, inside and outside BDSM.”
